In Love With Tantra
Deepen your connection and
experience bliss in the bedroom
with this six-week in-person
course for partners.
Date: 13/02/25 – 20/03/25
Time: Thursdays 18:30-20:30
Where: Neighbourhuud, Hove & Online
If you’re ready to transform your love-making with the powerful tools of tantra…
I’d be delighted to share my step-by-step six-week course with you.
Hi, I’m Katie, and I oversee Neighbourhuud, our centre for Dao, Tantra, and Birthwork.
I’ll be teaching you the essential tools to relax your body, connect with your partner, and turn on your pleasure.
I’m aware tantra can be a scary word. So for your reassurance, I’ll clarify now that you’re not entering an orgiastic spiritual cult with terrible music and fake food…
My desire is for you to enjoy lightly playing with tantric tools alongside other partners so we can learn (and laugh) together…
…and, to get inspired so you can explore more deeply at home.
Do you freeze up when your partner touches your body?
You might feel too stressed, busy, or tired to even think about sex.
You might feel distant from or even irritated by your partner…
Maybe you love them deeply but you just don’t enjoy the sex…
Maybe it's too emotionally or physically painful…
Or maybe it just doesn’t work.
Perhaps you reach for a glass of wine and the vibrator hoping they will help…
But inside you’re crushed… sex has got to get better than this.
“Katie’s classes will not only leave you feeling sexy and full of energy but can help you connect to and heal deeper parts of yourself. She guides you with her knowledge and passion which creates a space that feels fun and safe. Definitely would recommend for anyone interested in learning about tantra!”
– Meadow Gray
Having mind-blowing sex isn’t easy…
Our society doesn’t teach us how.
We learn to be an “attractive” lover… how to smile and pretend we’re satisfied…
If we do reveal our true sexual desires, our partner could be turned off, think we’re boring, or even be disgusted by us! The shame would be unbearable.
So, we ignore what our bodies want. Instead, we follow the same old routine, and fantasise about being somewhere else until we get a disappointing climax for one.
We disconnect from our bodies and forget our primal nature… we lose our mojo.
All motivation for romance goes out the window and we feel dead inside.
I could not sit by and continue to witness this tragedy.
I’ve often held a heavy heart. Watching my parents divorce destroyed my faith in a long-lasting, life-fulfilling marriage.
Add to that being sexually assaulted multiple times and I was pretty messed up when it came to sex and relationships.
I numbed it all out until an overpowering urge came over me to launch myself around the world to find some kind of awakening escape…
I found myself in a hammock in the jungle, plastered on rice whisky, revealing my sexual secrets to a scuba diver.
He swung there with me as I sobbed my heart out. Eventually, I had a revelation. The morning mozzies swarmed and the hangover dawned and I was blissed out…
Men can be good and love is the answer to everything… My awakening had begun.
I flew to Rishikesh to become a yoga teacher but my plans were thwarted when my teacher revealed his preference for tantra and the yoga curriculum went out the window…
Despite having a huge activation in my energy body, my relationships were a mess.
I isolated myself, had panic attacks, picked fights, had rage fits, got thrush all the time, my periods disappeared, and I had to dig my libido out from under the bed fearing my partner would leave me if I didn’t.
And then I found a yoni egg…
I discovered that self-pleasure can be a spiritual practice. From that moment on, nothing would be the same… I get to have orgasms for God! Wahoo!
Life’s ups and downs continued to inspire my healing, learning, and integrating:
I trained with New York’s IIN Health Coaching Program
I dabbled in Fertility Counselling, Hypnotherapy & Vipassana
I underwent a three-month Ayahuascero Apprenticeship in Iquitos
I solo-hiked mountains, danced and sang at festivals, and reclaimed my vitality
I obtained MSc Psychology from the University of Sussex specialising in the application of tantric practices for improved sexual satisfaction
I’m currently training with Conscious Birthing to become a Doula
For the past decade, I have dedicated my personal and professional work to creating evidence-based systems for myself and others to overcome fear of intimacy so we can feel alive in each other's presence!
The way I experience sexual energy in my and my partner’s body is truly divine and I believe it is our birthright to reclaim this power so we can thrive in loving relationships.
In Love With Tantra
is a six-week course for partners where your sex life will be transformed.
Week 1 — Commune
Trust your heart and commit to conscious communication
Week 2 — Empower
Create a relaxed space to feel confident to explore
Week 3 — Embody
Make love in any emotional state and be present with your partner
Week 4 — Surrender
Let go of your dignity and release your wild side
Week 5 — Worship
Reignite the romance and feel alive in your lover’s presence
Week 6 — Luxuriate
Expand your sensations and experience full-body bliss
Here’s how it works…
Each week you’ll learn a key principle of tantric relationships with:
A workshop on Thursdays 6:30-8:30pm at Neighbourhuud with your partner.
A pre-recorded 20-minute solo and partner practice so you can explore your bodies more intimately at home.
A podcast where I share relevant personal stories and tantric philosophy to deepen our discourse of the topic.
A whatsapp group where you can share and receive community support.
Optional coaching sessions if you need personal support with challenges and desires.
Camilla and Joseph’s experience…
“Katie’s way of holding space is everything I would want from someone who is guiding me through a vulnerable, expansive, and transformative workshop.
With wisdom whispering from an old soul and light playfulness of a young spirit she allows for all expressions on the spectrum to be safely held in a sacred container.
Me and my partner left the workshop with tools that have deepened our connection, ignited our playfulness and reflections that keep unfolding as the time passes.
Personally, I went through a journey that entailed tears of relief, giggles of joy and ecstatic physical sensations.”
These are the practices we’ll learn as they’ve had the greatest effect on my clients and I…
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Sensual massage to practice slowing down and communicating needs and desires so you can skilfully give and receive.
Positions and techniques to help you connect and regulate together whilst you make love.
Dance and somatic experience of being your sexiest self so you feel confident and embodied in your sexuality.
Orgasmic breathwork and visualisation so you can turn yourself on and expand your pleasure through your body so you can experience full-body orgasms.
Energy work so you can tune into your partner’s sexual energy, guide it around their body, and give them full-body orgasms.
Eye-gazing for playful and deep connection beyond words.
Cacao ceremony to weave plant medicine into your rituals and enliven your practice.
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Breast, yoni and linga massage to increase juiciness and sensations, release pent-up emotions, and discover choices for sexual play.
Tantric role-playing where you’ll embody a sexually powerful God, Goddess, or being so you can grow and meet different parts of yourselves.
Touch and admiration of your bodies so you can feel truly at home with each other.
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Classical pranayama to regulate your nervous system and release energetic blockages.
Classical asanas and intuitive movement to release tension and make room for pleasure.
Sankalpa where we listen to the “heart’s prayer” in order to set an intention and ritualise the practice.
Yoga nidra to deeply relax and rewire the mind and body.
Beeja and mahavidya mantras to rapidly shift your state.
Swadyaya to contemplate the magnificence of love in your relationship.
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Group conversations on a particular theme to see the similarities in other people’s experiences and learn from each other.
Free-writing to help you see the truth, speak from your heart, and have more time to make love.
Verbal communication games and guidance so you can get vulnerable, trust each other, and build a life full of play.
Here’s a little taste of my teaching style from our cosy Neighbourhuud studio…
Your questions answered…
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Date: 13/02/25 – 20/03/25
Time: x6 Thursdays 18:30-20:30
Where: Neighbourhuud, Hove & online for your at home 20-minute pre-recorded solo and partner practices. -
Mostly yes! This course is all about building the sanctity of your relationship so any intimate exchanges are kept between you and your partner.
We’ll do some group work with the intention of liberating ourselves from societal shame and learning through shared experiences.
You’ll also do some solo work so you can get to know your most hidden, and potentially most sexy parts.
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Yes! You can join with a friend or I can pair you up with someone. You can learn the practices platonically which you can later apply to your romantic relationship.
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Yes, but in appropriate places at appropriate times.
During the in-person workshops, touch practices will exclude genitals and breasts so we can keep the sexual stimulation at a level where our brains are working and we’re able to learn, practice, and ask questions.
At home, the practices might include breast and genital touch but this will depend on what you desire in the moment.
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You don’t have to take your clothes off… to learn to be a tantric lover… and have an incredible time… Our in-person workshops are all fully clothed. You may wish to remove some layers for your at home practices if it feels cosy in the moment.
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Each workshop builds upon the previous one so ideally you’ll be making your way over to see us each week. We don’t record them to respect everyone’s privacy.
If you can’t make it, we can arrange a discounted private/couples 90-minute Tantra Coaching session at Neighbourhuud or via zoom for £180 (instead of £250). We can ensure you have the full experience of the content and plenty of opportunity to ask questions.
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I blend the classical tantric view with my lived experience as a bisexual woman in a heteronormative relationship.
The classical texts explain that sexual energy flows differently in male and female bodies to compliment each other. Also, tantric texts such as the Hatha Yoga Pradipika do not discuss the concept of gender and instead guide practitioners to find balance within their own “sun” and “moon” qualities.
Time-tested lineages are crucial, and yet, they can be restrictive and prevent practitioners from finding their own intuitive inner guru.
So, if you have the capacity to experiment with the classical practices and adapt the language to align with your view, I’d love to guide you in this course! Please enquire if you’d like further clarification.
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The tantric view (darśana) is that it is our divine right to know the power of our sexual energy. It is our vitality, our life force, our kundalini shakti… our mojo!
Love is viewed as the fabric which weaves our universe together. We are literally made of love.
But, when life gets tough, we can forget who we truly are… ultimately, you are a sexually charged, love-filled being.
You and your partner deserve to remember this and remind each other every single day.
“Katie is really bringing sexy back with her empowering offerings. I've done a few of her classes and workshops and nearly every time I leave feeling more feminine, sexy and confident.
Her gentle, easy, free way of being is really inspiring and I recommend her classes/offerings to every woman! She has an intuitive way of sharing her knowledge whilst keeping things light and fun.”
– Joanna Costeira
Are you ready to reclaim your sexual power and experience even more love in your relationship? Let’s do it!
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If you get to the end of the course, you’ve given it your full heart, and you haven’t experienced one moment of bliss in the bedroom, I will give you a full refund. I offer this because I trust the effectiveness of this course as I’ve seen the practices work for me and my clients. I’d love you to try out this course risk-free and experience the magic for yourself. Spaces are very limited and I’d love to host you if you’re as excited as I am!
“I would recommend anyone who is curious to get in touch with themselves, their spirit and body to work with Katie. She is a blessing to work with and I feel deep gratitude for the love and magic she spreads on her path.
Katie created such a safe space and is super LGBTQIA+ inclusive. Boundaries were made super clear and it was easy to move at my own pace and opt out wherever I wanted.
I felt deeply empowered afterwards and very connected to the power of sexual healing. Normalising our bodies and facing my shame in community like this was transformative.”
– Orla
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